Trust hurts, betrayal kills;trust always in betrayal

[batboy2001]

Wow, I need some advice here.

First, I did the dumbest thing, I trusted someone. Yeah, I shared alot of personal life and problems with this one girl. Everyone likes her, every guy she has ever met has been interested in her.
Well, she likewise shared alot of info with me.

To make a very long complicated story short, I sent her a couple of really deep emails with some very personal info in them. Yesterday, she switches emails with this one complete jackass who hates me (even threatened to kill me if I liked her). Yep, he now has access to all my personal and family problems. You bet he will read them too. She is also dating this guy now.

Soooo, what do I do? First thing that came to mind is go off on her. I couldn't sleep last night thinking about all the ways. But last night I also decided to "let me anger and hate go" it has been running my life. I know I could crush her with all the stuff she has told me. I am not sure if I want to do something that mean, but I want to show her how angry I am and just what she did. See, I would pass it off as a REALLY REALLY dumb mistake, but she knew he didn't like me and threatened me. Makes me feel like crap.

Oh well, will be a LONG time before I trust anyone again, if ever.

[ZorBrak]

Man that sucks ass. Don't lose the ability to trust all people, but I understand exactly how you feel. What that chick did is pretty damn low. As for the jackass he threatened you, if he gets near you or tries to black mail you....well I dunno but don't blackmail the girl that would make you no bette than her. If that guy who threatened to kill you ever tries to fight you jusr remember that in a fight your fists are your weakest weapon....you mind is your strongest...and then your legs :D (i.e. kick the crap outta him if he ever tries to fight you).

[Jedigreedo]

Have you spoken with her about this? If she switched e-mails, she could've moved all her e-mails to her new account and deleted them in the last. I say approach her about it, just because they do a switch doesn't make her the enemy instantly.

[batboy2001]

Originally posted by Jedigreedo
Have you spoken with her about this? If she switched e-mails, she could've moved all her e-mails to her new account and deleted them in the last. I say approach her about it, just because they do a switch doesn't make her the enemy instantly. it seemed like a spur of the moment switch. I asked why she did it, quote "he asked".

[Aximlli]

Does she even have all of your past e-mails? Maybe you should ask her if she does or not. Shouldn't be a problem if she deleted them before she gave the e-mail to that guy.


-Aximlli-

[batboy2001]

Originally posted by Aximlli
Does she even have all of your past e-mails? Maybe you should ask her if she does or not. Shouldn't be a problem if she deleted them before she gave the e-mail to that guy.


-Aximlli- I sent them a couple of days ago. Friday she said she was going to reply to them this weekend, sooo that assumes she still has them. Oh, it's not a permament thing, they just thought it would be funny to switch emails (MSN messenger).

[Mitsuko]

I understand that you are mad at her for switching e-mails, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't trust anyone anymore. Not all everyone is the same, and there are people who can be trusted. Has the guy done anything yet, like tried to blackmail you? It might be that he doesn't have any intention of blackmailing you, but then again, I don't know him so I could be wrong. I hope this incident doesn't keep you from trusting anyone again.

-Mitsuko

[batboy2001]

Ah, good news, lets just say it all worked out for the good. Darn her vagueness. *WHEW* Thanks for the replies.