Girl in my College Excel Class Thinks I'm Cute

[Chris Sanders MSX]

Today was just weird for me. I discovered to pimples and was feeling very self conscience toady. Then I go to my College Excel class and find out some girl thinks I'm cute. But not in the way I'm used to which allows me to make a proper move.

Here's what happened, Her friend gave me a letter that basically said "My friend in the turtle neck thinks your cute, I just thought you should know."

I don't know how to respond to that ! I'm used to a girl telling me straight up, allowing me to make a decision but this is a much different senario.

What do I do walk up to her and go up to her and say Sooo, You think I'm cute ? How bout we get down to some lovin'? :p

No but seriously I want some advice. How should I approach this girl ? Should I even do anything about this ? I mean it really could just be her friend telling me she thought I was cute with nothing behind it.

But I still don't do so good when letters are involved. So for future reference could you guys help me out ?

[jeffrey 228]

What do I do walk up to her and go up to her and say Sooo, You think I'm cute ? How bout we get down to some lovin'?

I think it is best to know her first then invite her to a few places that you like.

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

You wacky American are so open, you should know how to handle it. I've rarely come across such open declarations of attraction up here in Canada. Even in my vacations to the U.S., I found Americans much more open and talkative than Canadians...but I digress.

Me? I'd walk up to her and smile wryly. Then I'd ask her if she wanted to hang out with me sometime. You don't need to acknowledge her letter, but your smile should be a subtle enough indication you appreciated her gesture.

[Nightflower]

Originally posted by Leaping Larry Jojo
You wacky American are so open, you should know how to handle it. I've rarely come across such open declarations of attraction up here in Canada. Even in my vacations to the U.S., I found Americans much more open and talkative than Canadians...but I digress.

Me? I'd walk up to her and smile wryly. Then I'd ask her if she wanted to hang out with me sometime. You don't need to acknowledge her letter, but your smile should be a subtle enough indication you appreciated her gesture.
I do it :P
But when I tell a guy I think he's cute, I'm not saying "I like you and would not be against going out with you." It's just... "I think you're cute." About the same depth as "I like the color of this chair". :P

Anyway, off tangent now ^_^'

[electricsheep]

I suggest kicking her in the stomach and asking her over for a night of DBZ viewing... ;)

[Weatherman]

If you eat lunch at the same time you could always ask to sit next to her and just tell hger about the letetr her friend gave you. If nothing else, it would break the ice.

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

Originally posted by Nightflower
I do it :P
But when I tell a guy I think he's cute, I'm not saying "I like you and would not be against going out with you." It's just... "I think you're cute." About the same depth as "I like the color of this chair". :P

Anyway, off tangent now ^_^'

LOL! Now I'm beginning to think Chris should just write a note with the word "Thanks" instead. :p

[czyznyck99]

That is certainly weird. I mean the fact that someone else gave you the note, it's like you just received your secret CIA assignment.

Well, here's your countermission - recon only, lie low, see what you find, and report back to Dr. Love...

Arrrggggghhhh! No more Alias for a week! :p

I got nothing to help you with, but good luck anyway.

Later.

[JohnCrichton]

Originally posted by Leaping Larry Jojo
LOL! Now I'm beginning to think Chris should just write a note with the word "Thanks" instead. :p

Alright MSX, I'm gonna guide you through this, so stay frosty.....

Larry's exactally right. This is a manuever to draw you out. If you over extend yourself you leave your self open.

What you do is ya need to draw more out of her so just take the compliment for what it is and say thank you and say you think she's also attractive.... if she's attractive.

After that exchange the next move is hers.

Remember, "When the opening presents itself you do not strike.... the opening strikes all by itself...."

;)

Go get 'em, Tiger!

[TimTwoFace]

Hmmm...just go over to her and talk to her, maybe. Don't necessarily mention the "cute" note - just strike up a conversation and see where it goes from there. :)

-Tim

[Failure]

Originally posted by Leaping Larry Jojo
LOL! Now I'm beginning to think Chris should just write a note with the word "Thanks" instead. :p

Hey! that's a great idea! No, seriously. It's just quirky and unexpected enough to spark some curiousity,

[Artemis]

Originally posted by czyznyck99
That is certainly weird. I mean the fact that someone else gave you the note, it's like you just received your secret CIA assignment.

Well, here's your countermission - recon only, lie low, see what you find, and report back to Dr. Love...

Arrrggggghhhh! No more Alias for a week! :p

I got nothing to help you with, but good luck anyway.

Later.

Just wanted to say that this is the funniest reply I have read in a while. XD

[cartoonboy]

I'm suprised that people are still passing notes, what with instant messaging and e-mail.

Leaping Larry - As a Canadian, I agree to disagree. It all depends on the lady. City broads are hard, so superficial, I did best when I was a buff youngster. Even then, I can smell high maintenance pt from a mile away (or ever lady @ Square One). Back in the day, I had better luck in Hamilton, Ottawa, Guelph, Burlington and Oakville. Having travelled to the states(Florida & California) Girls are trying to get a number of the guy chilling in the back seat. Gotta love 'em.

I would go with Larry's advice, just say hi and start a easy going no pressure conversation. If you get any indication of her wanting to hook up with they you move on it but nothing premature....they don't like that.

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

Originally posted by cartoonboy
I'm suprised that people are still passing notes, what with instant messaging and e-mail.

Leaping Larry - As a Canadian, I agree to disagree. It all depends on the lady. City broads are hard, so superficial, I did best when I was a buff youngster. Even then, I can smell high maintenance pt from a mile away (or ever lady @ Square One). Back in the day, I had better luck in Hamilton, Ottawa, Guelph, Burlington and Oakville. Having travelled to the states(Florida & California) Girls are trying to get a number of the guy chilling in the back seat. Gotta love 'em.



I should have been more specific. Cities are different all over Canada, and I have had good people experiences in Vancouver (though I have bad experiences with family there, so I won't be living there any time soon...).

Toronto is a very "cosmopolitan" city, as some might say. I think the complaints a few Torontonians have made recently about people in Toronto are valid to an extent. Don't get me wrong--I love the city and it's one of the most comfortable areas in the world, but the people tend to be harder and more difficult to warm up to here than someone outside of the area, say, in Montreal.

I'm not just talking about the women, but men and women in general. It seems that if you're talkative and friendly, Torontonians tend to give you those looks they reserve for a: quacks or b: want you to go away.

Granted, not everyone is going to be having a good day, but it seems to be a prevailing attitude Torontonians have embraced in dealing with strangers.

[Digu Volz]

Originally posted by electricsheep
I suggest kicking her in the stomach and asking her over for a night of DBZ viewing... ;)

And you can do the fusion dance together when you go out.

[Nightflower]

Originally posted by Leaping Larry Jojo
I should have been more specific. Cities are different all over Canada, and I have had good people experiences in Vancouver (though I have bad experiences with family there, so I won't be living there any time soon...).

Toronto is a very "cosmopolitan" city, as some might say. I think the complaints a few Torontonians have made recently about people in Toronto are valid to an extent. Don't get me wrong--I love the city and it's one of the most comfortable areas in the world, but the people tend to be harder and more difficult to warm up to here than someone outside of the area, say, in Montreal.

I'm not just talking about the women, but men and women in general. It seems that if you're talkative and friendly, Torontonians tend to give you those looks they reserve for a: quacks or b: want you to go away.

Granted, not everyone is going to be having a good day, but it seems to be a prevailing attitude Torontonians have embraced in dealing with strangers.
I was afraid to come to Toronto because I've heard all these stereotypes, but it's not that bad... I don't find it much different than Ottawa.. then again, I lived in a soccer-mom-happy suburb, so I wouldn't know ^_^

The hookers are awfully polite though.

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

Originally posted by Nightflower
I was afraid to come to Toronto because I've heard all these stereotypes, but it's not that bad... I don't find it much different than Ottawa.. then again, I lived in a soccer-mom-happy suburb, so I wouldn't know ^_^

The hookers are awfully polite though.

Oh yeah, U of T is in that part of town. I really haven't hung around that part of town very much, but I've heard that the hookers and street kids in Toronto are easier to get along with than the ordinary people!

[Failure]

Originally posted by Nightflower
The hookers are awfully polite though.

Prostitution is legal in Canada? :eek:

[ccffan01]

Originally posted by Failure
Prostitution is legal in Canada? :eek:

and Nevada. I think you should just go up to her and try to make some conversation.

[Nightflower]

I don't think so, but they're just there. My res is on a hooker st, and near the gay district. It's great!

Actually, the street kids are pretty impudent. But some of the older folks are pretty nice... when they're not crazy and following you... guh -_-'

Anyway, back to the topic!

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

I have had bad experiences with some of the young homeless people in Toronto. Some of the street kids are rather loud and pushy, so I guess it wouldn't change in another part of town anyway.

Getting back on topic--Chris, what's up with the situation today?

[Chris Sanders MSX]

Well, we don't go back to the class until Wensday(we have Monday off) so plan really is when I get to class is to see If she's even actually interested in me.

As for how I'm going to do that ...Uh I'm not sure. I'm most likely going to read over this thread and pick something or I'll try to let her come up to me. Ahhh, It's so hard being attractive. :p

I liked the off topic discussion. I actually plan on checking out Canada for a few colleges.

[Digu Volz]

Fusion dance, dagnabbit. It will surely win her love.