Sometimes I don't understand girls.........

[Dark Spider]

Why do girls insist on playing games on guys?

I am leaving the chinese kitchen and I past by these 3 girls. 2 are ugly and one of them are cute. Anyway, I was about to cross the street and one of them starts going wild saying I have a nice butt. Okay, I laugh and I start to cross the street because I really didn't want to be bothered by random girls. But then one of them calls me by my name. I turn around and I ask them how do they know my name, because I didn't know them at all, and I was curious. They tell me its on the back of my shirt. I laughed and I immediately knew that they were gonna try to play me, but since I was in a good mood, I played along...

I obviously knew that there was nothing on the back of my shirt, so I told them that. They then ask me to turn around so they could check. I knew what they were trying to see, but I played along anyway because we were all having fun. They go "Wow" (They said something else, but its not appropriate here), and they go "Yea, your name is up there on your shirt". I wanted to just laugh, but instead I said whatever.

After that, the cute one asks me for my phone number. I wasn't expecting her to call, so I decided to give it to her. Now if this whole thing was real, she would've asked for it on a piece of paper so she could better remember it, but since she didn't, it wasn't real. So I told her my phone number, which she probably forgot as soon as I was done telling it. But to assure me that she would remember, she recites it again. This whole thing was SO convincing... :rolleyes:

Then one of the ugly ones asks for a hug, and I was reluctant...I mean, I might catch something from her. But the cute one kinda saved me by asking me whether I worked or not. I told her the truth that I was gonna start working next week at a new Papa John's restaurant. They all kinda laugh, but not really. I didn't know what that was about, but I didn't care to know. She then asks me where it is and I told her. Jeez, she asks me like she's actually gonna visit me at the job or something... :rolleyes:

Then that same ugly girl asks for a hug again. This time the cute one insists that I give her friend a hug. So I gave her a half hug (you know the ones without any feeling put into it) and the giril goes "Uh oh". I wanted to laugh so bad at that point.

After that, I said my goodbyes and started to leave, but the other ugly girl stopped me. She asked me what was on my nose? Now I wanted to cuss this girl out. It was obviously a pimple and I was tempted to say "Its a pimple you stupid crapbag" (actually, I wanted to say something else, but once again, not appropriate here.) But I instead answered her question and they busted out laughing.

As soon as they did that, I already knew the joke was over, so I left. I probably looked like a total tool to them, but I didn't care, since I was getting a laugh out of it too. Plus, if I was serious about this all, lets just say they would've felt pretty embarrased. But I let them have their fun...

But it leaves me with a question now. Why do girls insist on playing guys like that? Why do they find sick humor in leading guys on and then cutting them off or doing something worst. That's sick for a person to do that, but still girls do that. I don't even find that kind of humor funny. Wow, you have successfully gave a guy the wrong number...that's so funny. :rolleyes:

And what gets me is that they are all upset when a guy uses them like that. They wanted more, but the guy only uses them for sex, isn't that a similar situation to what they are doing to guys?...hurting people who are lead on by them and then cut off.

Girls are weird...

NOTE:
Trust me, the girls in my story were not for real. They are only meatball heads (nice sailor moon ref)... :p

[Kuro-Neko]

This sounds kinda sexist.It seems like what your saying is that all girls in general are like that

[JETBLACK87]

yes yes they are EEEEEEEEEEVIL! stay away! *runs away and writes in notebook*

[Batman347]

Well, I read your story, it makes perfect sense, but I want to know how they knew your name. That's really weird, also, sometimes I don't understand some girls either.

[Dark Spider]

Originally posted by cool_girl
This sounds kinda sexist.It seems like what your saying is that all girls in general are like that

OH NO NO, I'm not sexist or anything. I should've put that SOME girls are like that (actually a small percentage), but definitely not all of them.

But I have seen too much of this kind of nonsense, to put a bad taste in my mouth (not that it happens to me...I see it happen to other people). My thoughts on the whole thing was supposed to reflect a bad mood of sorts toward this kind of thing, because I'm tired of seeing it...so I may have made the mistake of generalizing the whole thing a little.

Sorry for the misunderstanding... :(

[The Guard]

But it leaves me with a question now. Why do girls insist on playing guys like that? Why do they find sick humor in leading guys on and then cutting them off or doing something worst.

It's THE GAME. We all play it.

[Meow]

Guys have done similar things to me before, but I always ignore them completely and just keep walking. It REALLY bothers me when guys mess with me like that. I'll be walking down the street and some ugly guy will drive by and be like "Hey..my friend thinks you're cute. He wants your phone number." How am I supposed to respond to that? I mean..they've got to be kidding, right? He doesn't really want my phone number. They are just messing with me. And at any rate if he really does want it..I'm not gonna give it to him! Some jerk drving down the street wants my phone number, and he just expects me to slap it over. I don't even know the guy.

I always think the same thing about guys. "Why are they such jerks and like to play around like that?" So just try to keep in mind that it's not just girls that do it. The world is full of inconsiderate jerks...of both sexes.

This can be summed up in two simple but yet very truthful words.

People suck!

[Chris Sanders MSX]

I've had that sort of thing happen before, it sucks. It's simple, some people are just jerks. Especially ultra attractive/arrogant people. It sounded like the cute girl initiated the whole thing and her friends just followed, they have fun messing with people and as for how they knew your name odds are they go to your school and you never knew them, but they knew of you.

Falling off subject a bit.... Funny I have a pimple on my nose too. If you find oout how to get rid of yours let me know.

[The Game]

Originally posted by The Guard
It's THE GAME. We all play it.

No, I am THE GAME.

Hahahahahahhahahahahahohohohohohohohohohohehehehehehehehehhe.........................

Yeah, that was lame.

In all reality, it has nothing to do with sex, it just has to do with mean people. I've said it before- mean people suck. Guys or girls.

Hot girls in my gym class have pretended to be interested in me. I'm smart enough to know they're not serious- the guys who I feel bad for are the guys who don't know any better. They get dissed the worst and are humiliated.

Guys do it to though. The worst I've ever done is give fake numbers to hideiously ugly girls. I have friends who do worse that that, but I don't feel like discussing that here.

In this world there are many people, some mean, some nice. Hopefully we will all have more encounters with the nice ones from now on. :)

-The Game

[Zechs]

Don't feel bad guys used to do it to me all the time I was the school joke and it was the norm. I learned to ingore them or make fun them if I got really pissed. So just ignore them and it will most likely stop.

[BLACKHEART]

Word of advice don't stop and talk to fat and or ugly girls. If there are two fat and or ugly girls together keep on rollin'. If there are two fat and or ugly girls with a hot girl in the middle keep on rollin'.

If you not a fat and or ugly looking at you at any time keep on rollin'.

Don't make their day. Don't do it.

If you are not sure of yourself and two hot girls look like they are going to mess with you. Chances are they will mess with you. So what do you keep on doing? Keep on rollin'.

Remember anytime you see someone who isn't desireable to you look at you or attempt to talk to you just keep on rollin'.

[Kuro-Neko]

Originally posted by Dark Spider


OH NO NO, I'm not sexist or anything. I should've put that SOME girls are like that (actually a small percentage), but definitely not all of them.

But I have seen too much of this kind of nonsense, to put a bad taste in my mouth (not that it happens to me...I see it happen to other people). My thoughts on the whole thing was supposed to reflect a bad mood of sorts toward this kind of thing, because I'm tired of seeing it...so I may have made the mistake of generalizing the whole thing a little.

Sorry for the misunderstanding... :(
that's ok>I understand.Even though I am a girl I don't understand some girls either, especially cheerleaders :rolleyes:

[The Guard]

I don't think we'll ever understand the opposite sexes. I'm content to just respect and admire the good ones...and ignore the bad ones.

[DR. BELCH]

It's an inevitable fact of life that there are some women who will simultaneously excite you and infuriate you, that you could comfortably kiss or kill. I've said that before. I've also complained endlessly about the "rich tease" who gets pleasure from slumming it with men she knows daddy doesn't approve of just for kicks...and the "fake name/fake number girl", who is the worst of all (and the most dangerous--how many girls, I wonder, are stalked and killed because some other witch-with-a-b gave out their personal info to a lust-driven psycho?)
I suspect some are driven by boredom, and others out of revenge (some man hurt them somewhere along the line and now all men have to pay).

[VashTheStampede]

:mad: :mad: :mad:

[Crystalfox0]

Well geeze. I'm pretty wierd and I do some very strange things, but this is plain creepy. My only guess would be that maybe the girls knew you from shool or something. It could also be that they knew that you knew that they were playing with you. I mess around with peoples minds a lot, but it's usually with good humor and it's only with people I know.

[Chris Sanders MSX]

I know this girl that used to think it was funny to flirt with guys she had no intrest in, heck she used to do it to me, what she did was mean and just plain evil. Then this year we became friends some how and now I've seen her do it to other people and it'sb really sad, now that I know her better, I know whys he does what she does and let's just say she's not as emotionally stable as she acts.

So just think about that when those kind of girls do that kind of stuff, it's obvious that they are lackings omething in there lives and you should blow them off unless your willing to feel sorry for them , which you shouldn't because of how they act.

BTW the fake phone number thing isn't so bad, it's better than blowing the person off, rudely. I usually give out a number with 911 as the first 3 numbers, no girl has ever caught that one yet. My friends did, the first time I did it, it was kind of funny. I don't like blowing people off, I usually say i have a girlfriend but most pester on after that, so that's when I use the 911 tactic.

[Dark Vicious]

Girls play games on guys because theyve figured us men out they have us wrapped around their finger therefore can mess around with your heart trust me on this

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

I say you should have had a backhanded insult ready just in case. Something like, "This pimple is infected and some of the oil smeared on your skin when I hugged you. Sorry, I don't know how bad it could get. By the way, you three remind of some people."

Girls go "What?"

"I dunno, for some reason, you remind me of the Three Stooges. Silly me. Hahaha..."


BOOOOOOOOOOO!!

Okay, that's enough of my attempted insult act, I guess.

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

Originally posted by SLIPKNOT

Word of advice don't stop and talk to fat and or ugly girls. If there are two fat and or ugly girls together keep on rollin'. If there are two fat and or ugly girls with a hot girl in the middle keep on rollin'.




LOL! Sage advice from the great Slipknot. :bosko:

[The Guard]

More sage would be not to judge like that.

But...

A wise man once told me that if you get in a fight, make sure you hit the other person hard enough that they'll think twice before returning blows. If you must use insults...

Go for their weight.

Most girls (even the thin ones) are VERY VERY sensitive about their weight. They can be the most drop-dead gorgeous girl in the world, and they'll burst into tears if you just say "Getting a little round?"

Any girls want to back me up on that? It's cruel...but it's effective, and it sends a message.

[Meow]

Originally posted by The Guard
Any girls want to back me up on that? It's cruel...but it's effective, and it sends a message. LOL! Yea, that's true for most girls. Just tell them that they are fat..and they'll shut-up. hehehehe..

That's cause girls tend to care about their looks a lot more. (blame it on TV..we've been brainwashed) I dunno about the rest of you, but I see UgLy guys with really nice looking girls all the time. It's almost never the opposite though.

By the way..I am a girl just for the record.

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

This is not cruelty, this is self defense! And its legal self defense that doesn't involve physicalities.

While the Slipknot approach is hard to resist (it makes no sense, but there's something catchy about the way he phrased it... :D ) I think there comes a time when a man's gotta do what man's gotta do.

And that is verbally outfence a female. This is very difficult, as girls are GENERALLY much quicker of tongue than their male counterparts. So it is best if one has contingencies for these sort of situations (or general ones). The weight one is GOOD...but not all girls affected by it--I've tried it.

Surprisingly, I have had some success with "You suck!" No joke. It's lame, but it pretty much ends every conversation pretty thoroughly.

There's also

"It takes one to know one."--This line can nearly be applied to every situation.

"I am rubber, you are glue."--Sometimes confounding an enemy is the best way to shut them up.

"Oh yeah?"--Last minute resort.

"I gotta barf on someone..."--Useful if you just ate and find something repulsive about the girls in front of you.

[ghost15]

i have a similar story. My friends and i were outside of the movie theatre sitting by the pay phone after seeing i think blade 2 or jason x. well we were sitting here and a bunch of cheerleader type girls came over and asked us for our autographs. why i do not know. my friend asks Why. he gets little success, and one annoying girl resonds with you cute. thats when we get up and walk away. while i have little exportiese in this exact area. i have always found it helps to kind of phychologically exam these folk. they tend not to be exactly bright, so usually everything you say confuses them. i have to deal with jerks often in school its full of jerks.

i hate people.

[Zoddman]

Originally posted by SLIPKNOT

Word of advice don't stop and talk to fat and or ugly girls. If there are two fat and or ugly girls together keep on rollin'. If there are two fat and or ugly girls with a hot girl in the middle keep on rollin'.

If you not a fat and or ugly looking at you at any time keep on rollin'.

Don't make their day. Don't do it.

If you are not sure of yourself and two hot girls look like they are going to mess with you. Chances are they will mess with you. So what do you keep on doing? Keep on rollin'.

Remember anytime you see someone who isn't desireable to you look at you or attempt to talk to you just keep on rollin'.

This is one of the funniest posts I've seen in a long time. :D

[Zechs]

Originally posted by The Guard
More sage would be not to judge like that.

Go for their weight.

Most girls (even the thin ones) are VERY VERY sensitive about their weight. They can be the most drop-dead gorgeous girl in the world, and they'll burst into tears if you just say "Getting a little round?"

Any girls want to back me up on that? It's cruel...but it's effective, and it sends a message.
Yeah that's true girls have been told for so many years that fat is ugly that most of us think it's true. I don't think it's cruel to tell them their they're fat or hurt their feelings if they are messing with you they deserve it. Maybe it'll make them think twice before trying it again. My advice find the worst thing about them and attack then maybe they'll leave you alone.

[Meow]

Well, if a girl really isn't fat....I don't see what's to get upset about. It's almost pathetic how sensitive some people are. If someone does get upset over something like that, it just goes to show you how insecure they really are on the inside.

At any rate, I'm not fat..some dumb boy called me fat one time and I just blinked and was like "Um what?" That kid must have left his glasses at home or something cause he was seeing things. It didn't hurt my feelings..it just sort of confused me.

If I WAS fat..that'd be different though...I'm self consious about some things, so it's a good thing I'm not fat. I certainly don't want to have to deal with that.

Not that any of this is even relevant..I don't go around hitting on guys just to mess with them. I don't hit on guys period...and when guys hit on me, I can never tell if they are being serious or just playing around, so I usually just ignore them all together. Ugh..most guys that hit on me are really annoying anyway. I guess they think that kind of thing impresses me. Oh yea baby..I am SO turned on when some little Freshmen comes up to me and is like "hey girl, you're hot" "How's it goin'?" And then he does that.."chin thing"...where he kinda nods appararntly thinking he's sexy. Ugh...! I just wanna slap every guy that does that! Stupid guys! Is that supposed to set my loins aflame? It doesn't work at ALL. It's not flattering it's just...it's almost insulting that this guy actually thinks that I'm going to fall for him or something. The conversation is usually ended with me rolling my eyes and the guy walking away or ME walking away.

[MachSabre]

Originally posted by Dark Spider
Why do girls insist on playing games on guys?

My friend... I've been married now for a year. I was in the dating scene for over fifteen years and I finally found a woman who I clicked with...

And she is STILL confusing to me!

Even if you found that perfect woman, you can NEVER figure her out. That is the curse of being the opposite sex.

Take solace in the fact that it's just as bad for women too.

And Slipknot's right. Find that woman and go for her... Don't settle. If she's not interested, move on to the next! That may sound sexist, but that's how we men are. Women don't like that... Become a lesbian. Because we are not changing. Nature won't let us.

[Chris Sanders MSX]

Originally posted by Meow
LOL! Yea, that's true for most girls. Just tell them that they are fat..and they'll shut-up. hehehehe..

That's cause girls tend to care about their looks a lot more. (blame it on TV..we've been brainwashed) I dunno about the rest of you, but I see UgLy guys with really nice looking girls all the time. It's almost never the opposite though.

By the way..I am a girl just for the record.


Yeah I see ugly guys with hot girls all the time. Its' because most girls unlike guys look at there mates for who they are on the inisde and not just the outside. I'm REALLY guilt of that, I've been cool witha nd ahve even been attracted to ugly girls but just beacuse they are ugly dissmiss them.

It's funny too because all my friends and i ahvea greed that attebd to attract some ugly ass girls. I say it's because usually the ugly girls think they have to take the inititive while cute girls want you to do all the work.

[cartoonboy]

I completely agree with what Machina said. I have been going out with the same girl for approx. 2yrs and there I times I know her better than herself and then there are times I have not the foggiest idea about what is going on! I think that is during the time that her Aunt Flo visits (South Park reference).

[Ms. Kitty]

LOVE SHOULDN'T BE A GAME DANGNABIT!!! :mad: :o :)

[Webryder]

It's about POWER

Some girls have it over dudes and they know it. They use their sexuality to get power over men with weak minds and strong hormones and get them to jump thru all sorts of hoops, making the guy act like a fool because some females seriously get off on that.

That's why some cute girls travel in pack with ugly ones-they get off on being the one every guy sends play to in the group, then the friends get used to overwhelm the dude and make him do and say things he wouldn't if the cute one was alone

That's why some cheerleaders can be so nasty towards most people-their popularity in school and oftimes overtly displayed sexuality gives them the sometimes misplaced confidence that they can do anything to anybody and get away with it due to that pedestal they've been placed on their whole lives


When people don't have a healthy self-confidence that comes from knowing you have something to offer the world besides your sex, they can get their "fix" by using the only thing they REALLY have to cover up that fact to everyone else.

When people say power is the ultimate aphrodisiac, they ain't kiddin :rolleyes:

But that's just my opinion....I could be wrong :D

[Ms. Kitty]

Nope. I think you've got it right Webryder. People who use themselves like that just to get their way is SICK!!! :mad: *sigh* :( girls are weird...heh I should talk, I'm one of them. :D

[RogueMartian]

I never understood why guys consider females such a big mystery. Neither gender is complex enough to warrant confusion. In Dark Spider's case, it was three bored people who picked what they thought was an easy target to take advantage of. I have NEVER done that to a guy. But some people, male or female, look at people they see as an easy target and harrass them. I've seen girls do it to guys and I've seen guys do it to girls.
It's about POWER

Some girls have it over dudes and they know it. They use their sexuality to get power over men with weak minds and strong hormones and get them to jump thru all sorts of hoops, making the guy act like a fool because some females seriously get off on that.

That's just ridiculous. Guys have displayed this kind of behavior too. I know because I have been the target of it MANY times. I was a short, quiet, bookworm in school, many guys thought it was funny to tease me, pretend to ask for my phone number, etc. This behavior persists in college too. So its stupid to assume that only girls are into little power games. The only difference is, most women will not submit to such behavior and simply walk away, while guys (for some unknown reason) will willingly make idiots of themselves for some crude persons entertainment. Which only proves my point, both men and women have mean people among them, and its not that difficult to figure out either of them.

[Chris Sanders MSX]

It's kinda like I said. Some people are just jerks, period.

I have friends who find this kind of think funny, most of the time while this stuff happens I just watch, and usually don't participate.

[Webryder]

Originally posted by RogueMartian
That's just ridiculous. Guys have displayed this kind of behavior too. I know because I have been the target of it MANY times. I was a short, quiet, bookworm in school, many guys thought it was funny to tease me, pretend to ask for my phone number, etc. This behavior persists in college too. So its stupid to assume that only girls are into little power games. The only difference is, most women will not submit to such behavior and simply walk away, while guys (for some unknown reason) will willingly make idiots of themselves for some crude persons entertainment. Which only proves my point, both men and women have mean people among them, and its not that difficult to figure out either of them.

I never said woman cornered the market on sexual mind games Rogue. Men have done it too, and what either sex doesn't realize it's that it's kinda for the same reasons.

A boy will play games with a girl to prove to himself and his peers that he can pick and chose between anyone he wants just becuz he blatanly humiliates someone him and his friends see as not hot. Which gives his really insecure ego a boost and he can, in his own mind, be "da man" in front of his boys and seen as "stud" to other "hot" girls.

Vise versa, a girl will make a guy go thru all sorts of obstacles to get with her to kinda give herself a kinda quick empowerment-like deal becuz in her mind that means she'll be more sexy to the boys she REALLY likes and therefore have the false confidence enuff to try and make him go thru the same thing.

It all goes back to what I was saying before if you don't see yourself as having much worth, sometimes you'll use sex to either cause others to feel as low as you or to make them do whatever you want or both.

And for guys, it's even harder to resist that treatment cuz we have a built-in natural handicap.....Hormones

And what's worse (if it can get any worse) we peak sexually BEFORE our brains have a chance to catch up, right around high school/college. :o :o :confused: :eek:

[Zechs]

That's so true. It's fun to some people to humiliate others by playing mind games just to show how cool you are. Guys pick ugly girls and play with them just as girls pick ugly guys. It all depends on how much of a jerk the person is.

[cartoonboy]

One word.....empathy.

[RogueMartian]

Originally posted by Webryder


I never said woman cornered the market on sexual mind games Rogue. Men have done it too, and what either sex doesn't realize it's that it's kinda for the same reasons.

Oh ok, I thought you meant women cornered the market in mind games.
Originally posted by Webryder
And for guys, it's even harder to resist that treatment cuz we have a built-in natural handicap.....Hormones

And what's worse (if it can get any worse) we peak sexually BEFORE our brains have a chance to catch up, right around high school/college. :o :o :confused: :eek:
Be careful, you're making arguments for a single sex education system. ;)

[Chris Sanders MSX]

It's not just ugly people that get picked on, it's nice/quiet people too. I had this going on during my "nice guy" stage. I learned quickly that being nice doesn't cut it with anyone.

[Dark Spider]

It's not just ugly people that get picked on, it's nice/quiet people too. I had this going on during my "nice guy" stage. I learned quickly that being nice doesn't cut it with anyone.

I'm gonna have to agree with that. Being nice makes you automatically an easy target because it shows people that either you're a wimp or that your'e gullible enough to actually fall for whatever mind game they are putting you through. Also nice people tend to shower their love interest with gifts and extra love, and people use this to their advantage.

Being quiet also makes you an easy target because it shows people that you don't know anything. Since you're quiet, you don't talk about things you know and stuff, so people just assume that you are ignorant and they use that to their advantage. Also people may think you're a geek or a social outcast because you don't socialize often and this also makes you an easy target...I mean, who cares about the geek...nobody does...

I have the disadvantage of being both nice and quiet. Its part of my personality and livelyhood...I can't be anything else no matter how hard I try. I don't get mad at ANYTHING...EVER. I have the world's biggest temper. I'm calm about everything (well, almost everything). People use this to their advantage and make fun of me sometimes, since I usually ignore them or won't say anything.

Also since I'm extra nice, this also makes me an easy target to some girls...not neccesarily to go out with, but to leech off of. But lately, I have been pretending to get angry with people, so that did some good for me at least...but I hate doing that though, since I'm not being myself. In fact , people said I have changed because I'm all of a sudden meaner. But hey, I was forced to become that way. People sure aren't harrasing me about stuff anymore.

But still, its really a shame that you can't be yourself anymore, because society is evil enough to play off of it.

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

I'm basically quiet. Not because I'm shy, but because I don't give a crap about 90% of the things most of the "sociable" people at work (or when I was in school) talk about. I don't see any point in me talking about something utterly boring like clothing or hairspray. You think only girls talk about these things? Wrong! Guys go on about the latest brand-name clothes and I really don't care half a cent about these kind of things other than the fact that they keep my body warm and keep me from getting arrested for indecent exposure.

[Webryder]

Originally posted by RogueMartian
Be careful, you're making arguments for a single sex education system. ;)

No I'm saying men have a natural, predisposition to acting that way at that age-we've got out of control hormones

Whereas women who treat people like that are just plain eevil! :mad:

J/K ;) :D

[The Guard]

I'm gonna have to agree with that. Being nice makes you automatically an easy target because it shows people that either you're a wimp or that your'e gullible enough to actually fall for whatever mind game they are putting you through.

You have to show them that though you might be a decent person (so few of us), you are NOT one to be walked on. Deny the girls their candy, presents, ect. If I don't have a girlfriend, I'm not spending money on Valentine's Day stuff. So don't ask. It's also helpful to be able to terrify. I've got kind of a Batman thing going on. I'm quiet, I'm reserved, but when someone messes with me, or does something wrong...well...you know how Batman can freeze people with one look? I can do that. It's bliss.

[Chris Sanders MSX]

I have the disadvantage of being both nice and quiet. Its part of my personality and livelyhood...I can't be anything else no matter how hard I try. I don't get mad at ANYTHING...EVER. I have the world's biggest temper. I'm calm about everything (well, almost everything). People use this to their advantage and make fun of me sometimes, since I usually ignore them or won't say anything.

Also since I'm extra nice, this also makes me an easy target to some girls...not neccesarily to go out with, but to leech off of. But lately, I have been pretending to get angry with people, so that did some good for me at least...but I hate doing that though, since I'm not being myself. In fact , people said I have changed because I'm all of a sudden meaner. But hey, I was forced to become that way. People sure aren't harrasing me about stuff anymore.

I'm the same way, but I just adapt from time to time. Like If there's some guy who screws with me, I'm not nice to him as I would with my friends or other people. There's this dumb fat guy in 2 of my classes, He asked to see my cell phone in class and I told him I didn't have it. He goes "Hey What's wrong with you not bringing your cell phone ?" I go because I didn't feel like bringing it {curse word}. If someone talks stuff or tries to bully me and I don't find it funny, I either return it with either sarcasim or ignorance, because I'm stuck up in a way that I Really do think i'm superior to most of the people who attend my school.

My friend Anthony gets pissed at me sometimes because He's like "You can never piss Chris Off! And if you try he just treats you!" For everything he says I have something better or i'll just ignore him or I'll go back to sarcasim and Clap really slowly which makes him go "Shut Up". It's stems from not caring what he thinks and just being naturally smart. When most people have questions about certain things they come to me.

As for females,With them it depends on the girl. For the most part I'm a sarcastic butt hole with girl's I'm attracted to, with girls I don't like I'm mostly nice, the girls I do like are usually wittness to this and they'll go "Why aren't you that nice to me" I'll respond with something like "because Cute girls don't like nice guys" ..It's a compliment and could be taken as funny and because your usually sarcastic. It just happens to pay off that my sarcasim is funny and then the fact that I know all this obscure stuff helps too because people think I'm way for intelligent than I am. There are some girls who appreciate a sweet guy, so know which girls are which. You can still be a nice and quiet guy, just add things to your personality.

When I got to High School I would have been considered nice/quiet and now it's funny and quiet depending on who you talk to. Another thing that helps is being honest but desguising that honesty as a joke. I've told so many people how much I hate them or how if they died, I wouldn't waste my time going to there funeral because when High Schools over I'll never see you again, anyway. I've admitted I like a lot of girls just testing reactions like this as well. It also makes it easy for you to blow off stuff, like talking.

It just happens that the only reason i'm quiet in school is If I'm around people I don't like or am just not feeling good. People will be like why are you quiet ? I'll say because I don't care about what your talking about or simply because I don't feel like talking.

It's easy to be honest if your known for being sarcastic, and at the same time you can remain nice and quiet.

Part of the reason I had a problem with that girl from my ealier thread is I'm not attracted to her, so i'm usually nice to her..and she wouldn't expect or find it funny if I blow her off the way I wanted to and have done to other girls.

Back on subject.. Let me just tell you this. Freshmen year I had a girlfriend during my "nice stage" , I bought her stuff and all. She took advantage of my niceness, later I found out she cheated on me. I broke up with her and after that I just got kind of mean..which later turned to sarcasim. I've always handled break ups well so i didn't act bitter and when I saw her I'd hug her and stuff. This year she's asked me to go back with her about 5 times. She's the type of girl who never tries to backw ith anyone after milking them, but seeing me interact with my friendsa nd other far more attractive girls made her want me back, but I never go back with anyone who cheats on me (she's the second) but I string her along for my ego. Something like this has happened to my best friend and well I think What I'm saying is in order to "really not be nice" is to have your heart broken.

What happened to you hasn't happened to me in a while, it happened Freshman year but now me and that girl are really cool. And it's obvious that it's because I'm no longer mr. nice guy.

[Chris Sanders MSX]

You have to show them that though you might be a decent person (so few of us), you are NOT one to be walked on. Deny the girls their candy, presents, ect. If I don't have a girlfriend, I'm not spending money on Valentine's Day stuff. So don't ask. It's also helpful to be able to terrify. I've got kind of a Batman thing going on. I'm quiet, I'm reserved, but when someone messes with me, or does something wrong...well...you know how Batman can freeze people with one look? I can do that. It's bliss.

Yeah I agree. I get girls asking, So what are you getting me for my birthday ? And I go, what did you get me for my birthday last year ?


Here are direct true Quotes after the girl goes :
"Nothing."

- Let's not change the tradition.

-Well that's what I'm getting you.

One time the girl said she'd get me something this year if I gave her something. So I gave her a hug, and said happy birthday laughing. That's my favorite one.

Or sometimes I'll just flat out say, What are you gona give me ? And you know what pops into most peoples heads when you say this. Usually the girl will leave you alone after this.

Sure, wish I could freeze people with my stare but when I do that I just look like I'm going to kill somebody and most people I know aren't struken be fear with that. Used to work in Elementry School though.

[The Guard]

I'm just cold to girls that "show interest".

I've just been BLEEPED on so much with so little in return, that I cannot comprehend a girl liking me. It's sad, but even when girls talk to me, I'm real cold with them. Not mean. Cold. I listen. I might respond, but it'll be a two-word sentence. It's not their fault. I admit, it's a defense mechanism. I'm not scared that they're actually interested or something like that, I just cannot comprehend it. I've gained the ability to see right through the ones that just want to tease, or need something. I can tell a girl's feelings about me within the first five seconds of contact. It's a handy skill. The cost, though...I'm not sure was worth it.

[The Guard]

Sure, wish I could freeze people with my stare but when I do that I just look like I'm going to kill somebody and most people I know aren't struken be fear with that. Used to work in Elementry School though.

No. You don't want the "I'm going to kill you" look. You want:

"DON'T"

[Chris Sanders MSX]

I've got that but thanks to my sarcasim most people don't take it seriously. I never really have any real beef with anyone. I've made friends with all my enemies at school except this fat guy, but that's because I genuinly see nothing worth me even wasting time going back and fourth with. He tries power play stuff like "Chris get me a book" I'll look at him like he's stupid and get a book for me and sit down. Then he tries to insult me by calling me ugly and I just ignore him and finish reading and my teacher goes. " Why are you wasting time looking at boys, in the middle of your final ? Sanders has been done for an hour." (I took my final and finished it in 20 minutes. )

He felt stupid because after class he pushed me and I pushed him into a locker and went to class. I have to take action with almost all of the people who mess with me. The look doesn't
work for me.

[Mad Scientist]

Lemme get this straight: You don't like girls, and yet you have Kiyone for an avatar... -_-

[Chris Sanders MSX]

Read the thread. ;)

[Zechs]

Originally posted by The Guard
I'm just cold to girls that "show interest".

I've just been BLEEPED on so much with so little in return, that I cannot comprehend a girl liking me. It's sad, but even when girls talk to me, I'm real cold with them. Not mean. Cold. I listen. I might respond, but it'll be a two-word sentence. It's not their fault. I admit, it's a defense mechanism. I'm not scared that they're actually interested or something like that, I just cannot comprehend it. I've gained the ability to see right through the ones that just want to tease, or need something. I can tell a girl's feelings about me within the first five seconds of contact. It's a handy skill. The cost, though...I'm not sure was worth it.
Yeah I know the feeling I was never really asked out until my third year in high school due to that I've become a bit too independant like not dating at all the fact that most of the girls I knew back then got messed on didn't help eather. Reminds me of a sotry. A guy asked me out I told him on so he asked my friend out( I didn't mind) two weeks later she came and told me he called her a hoe behind her back when she asked him he said it was true so she dumped him. Glad I didn't go out with him. I'm not cold to a guy he asks me out I eather lie or just tell I'm not intrested.

[atf487]

I'm basically quiet. Not because I'm shy, but because I don't give a crap about 90% of the things most of the "sociable" people at work (or when I was in school) talk about. I don't see any point in me talking about something utterly boring like clothing or hairspray. You think only girls talk about these things? Wrong! Guys go on about the latest brand-name clothes and I really don't care half a cent about these kind of things other than the fact that they keep my body warm and keep me from getting arrested for indecent exposure.


Same here, Larry. All the girls think I'm "gay", because I don't pester them every 3 seconds. I really don't care 1), what they usually have to say, and @), their opinions on ANYTHING.

[Theking]

Well I am still a 'nice' guy even after high school.
I got picked on as a freshman but I never got upset or gave it back so after a while I was just 'no fun to pick on' person.
That was just fine with me since I didn't care what they (classmates) did anyway.
I may not have gotten to all of the 'cool' parties or things like that but I never drank alcohol anyway (still going, 34 yrs, never had an alcoholic drink stronger than Ny-quil). And when I was in school, prob. still true, if you didn't drink you were nothing.

and that was fine by me.

TheKing

[Dark Spider]

Originally posted by Mad Scientist
Lemme get this straight: You don't like girls, and yet you have Kiyone for an avatar... -_-

I never said I don't like girls...I was just saying that I don't understand girls in conjuction with what had happened to me (first post).

And just to tell everyone...

I saw that same cute girl and one of the ugly girls a few hours ago at the chinese place. She (the cute one) said that she tried to call, but there was a busy signal...and the ugly girl (The one that asked the stupid pimple question from last week) even went through the trouble of verifying it. :rolleyes:

Actually, this could be semi true. After the fiasco last week, I went on the internet and made this thread about it...so there could've been a busy signal when she called...but I doubt she called. :rolleyes:

Anyway...after the ugly girl "verified" that she called, she then proceeds to push the cute girl REAL hard (I guess jokingly because she was laughing). The cute girl almost fell. My face was like this... :eek: . But the cute girl just laughed and countined walking down the street with the ugly girl.

Now I don't know what that push was all about... but I almost ran over to see if the cute girl was okay...before I remembered that she tried to play me that is. Seriously,she pushed her THAT hard. But I guess I'll never know what it was about. If it was my presence that caused them to act that goofy (and violent I might add :) ), maybe they do like me, but for now, I doubt it.

I hope I see them again though...I still don't know how they know my name! (and I plan to find out too) :mad: :mad: :mad:

[SonGoku V3]

So.......you STILL don't know their names, but they know yours? Maybe it's me, but I'm sensing an elementary school crush here. Look at the signs:

I saw that same cute girl and one of the ugly girls a few hours ago at the chinese place. She (the cute one) said that she tried to call, but there was a busy signal...and the ugly girl (The one that asked the stupid pimple question from last week) even went through the trouble of verifying it.

This is interesting, because if they didn't like you, and they were playing with you the first time, I believe that they wouldn't have bothered with you a second time. I suggest though to keep your guard up though, because these also might be the types that try to play you in the long run. You know, the ones that get you when your guard is down and try to embarass you later on in your "relationship".

Anyway...after the ugly girl "verified" that she called, she then proceeds to push the cute girl REAL hard (I guess jokingly because she was laughing). The cute girl almost fell. My face was like this... . But the cute girl just laughed and countined walking down the street with the ugly girl.

Yep, there's the whole cute-sy act around you verifying the "school-yard" crush. My opinion: Keep your guard up, WAY UP! If you see them again, why don't you turn the tables and play with them. Play their game, but don't play by their rules, or else you'll lose. IMO, this looks like a fun situation your in, so have fun with it. ;)

[Dark Spider]

So.......you STILL don't know their names, but they know yours?

Amazing isn't it. :rolleyes:

The only thing I can call them are...

The Cute Girl (The main one...kinda like the ringleader)
Ugly Girl #1 (The one that asked the stupid pimple question)
Ugly Girl #2 (The one that I had the misfortune of hugging) Wasn't around for the second time

Maybe it's me, but I'm sensing an elementary school crush here.

Do you really think? I still think they are playing around with me. Girls like that tend to never quit when they're having fun. But then again...they may do have a crush on me, but have a funny way of showing it.

If you see them again, why don't you turn the tables and play with them. Play their game, but don't play by their rules, or else you'll lose. IMO, this looks like a fun situation your in, so have fun with it.

You know, that's not a bad idea. I was having fun by them just trying to play me...I found it kinda funny, but now its getting baffling and annoying. So I will play with them now and see how they like it...(especially the cute girl ;) )

[Chris Sanders MSX]

What I'd do.

If I see them again, I'd ask the cute girl if she still had my number. I'd tell her definite time to call me. If she calls then she's obviously interested..Unless her friends are on the phone.

Start out the convo either way with..How do you know my name anyway and what's yours ? After you find out what you want it's your decision to hang up the phone or keep talking.

For some people it's easier to say certain stuff on the phone, so use that.

[Dark Spider]

Originally posted by Chris Sanders MSX
What I'd do.

If I see them again, I'd ask the cute girl if she still had my number. I'd tell her definite time to call me. If she calls then she's obviously interested..Unless her friends are on the phone.

Start out the convo either way with..How do you know my name anyway and what's yours ? After you find out what you want it's your decision to hang up the phone or keep talking.

For some people it's easier to say certain stuff on the phone, so use that.

Actually, that's a pretty good idea...I might do that since I have an easier time talking to people over the phone than in person.

If I don't do that, then I'll definitley ask in person...but they'll probably make up some stupid answer like last time though.

LOL, my name was on my shirt... :rolleyes:

[Chris Sanders MSX]

I get bored some sometimes I go get custom shirts made, like the one mentioned on my signature.

I have about three different colored shirts that say My Name is NOT Chris Sanders on the back.

Maybe you really did have your name on your shirt. :rolleyes: