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Brandon Pierce

06-21-2002, 08:11 PM

School just got out a few days ago, and I STILL haven't really confessed to this one girl that I had a crush on her. Now what? I have her phone number (but I'm not sure if it's her real number, one of her friends gave it to me) and someone told me where she lives. So? I simply couldn't just go up to her door and say, "Hi, Amanda! How are you? Nice weather we're having! This is a nice place you got! By the way, I have a crush on you!" :o !
Any suggestions?

Psycho Fox

06-21-2002, 09:30 PM

JETBLACK87

06-21-2002, 09:53 PM

ah yes advice from a Professional Loon. I just thought that looked funny. I'll leave now.

The Guard

06-21-2002, 10:29 PM

You know what to do. Do it. Or regret not doing it for the rest of your life.

Chris Sanders MSX

06-21-2002, 10:45 PM

For the second time, i'm in the same exact position except this girl has a boyfriend right now, but knowing him they'll be broken up by the start of next school year and that's when I plan on amking my move. I have her number but you know how it si when someone who doesn't normally call you just calls you all of a sudden...

As for advice for you unless you have any idea that she likes you back, give it up and go to some parties and meet some other girls and try talking to this girl next year. The experience with the other girls will make it easier. besides this kinda stuff si ALWAYS handled best face to face. Not to mention that you got her number from a friend and not her....

If you can't hold yourself call her up and tell her your going to a movie or something and wanted to see if she wanted to hang out. You guys will most likely hang out again and along that course you ask her to be your girl. It worked for me the last time.

The Game

06-21-2002, 11:04 PM

If you don't know her well enough to just "call her up" feel free to find out what she's doing this summer from a friend, then "run into her." When the meeting is "natural" you'll find out you have more to talk about, you know.

-The Game

BLACKHEART

06-22-2002, 12:21 PM

The joy of high school hahahahahaha

If you see something you want just take it. Seize the day. You can be a chicken or you can be the guy who scores. If you want to be a chicken then say hello to a lot of miserable nights.

I'm going to tell you something that you can use the rest of your life. So pay attention.

If you like or want a girl then make the move. Ask her out or whatever. What is the worse that can happen? She'll say no.

If she says no then you laugh it off and find the next set of legs.

If she says yes then you got what you want and you'll be happy.

If you just sit back and do nothing then say hello to watching Tomb Raider on DVD every Saturday night.

You are young. Be young. She says no go find another. It's not that hard. Keep on rollin'.

The Guard

06-22-2002, 01:35 PM

If you like or want a girl then make the move. Ask her out or whatever. What is the worse that can happen? She'll say no.

Never use that line...because a lot worse can happen. It's just asking for it. :)

Psycho Fox

06-22-2002, 01:56 PM

Originally posted by The Guard
If you like or want a girl then make the move. Ask her out or whatever. What is the worse that can happen? She'll say no.

Never use that line...because a lot worse can happen. It's just asking for it. :) What she beat the crap out of you for asking her out?

The Guard

06-22-2002, 01:58 PM

I'm skating the edge. I can't tell you on the boards...:)

a.k.a. Skarr~~

06-22-2002, 03:08 PM

Check out my thread titled "I'm running out of time!" BTW: I'm in your situation! Cept I don't have her phone or adress. :(

VashTheStampede

06-22-2002, 04:23 PM

Get one of your friends to blurt it out to one of her friends then at that point it is up to her.

Sandro

06-22-2002, 05:53 PM

You know what to do. Do it. Or regret not doing it for the rest of your life.

That's telling it like it is!

BLACKHEART

06-22-2002, 06:51 PM

Unless she goes around telling everyone you have cooties then the worse she can do is say no. In all seriousness live for the moment. Take the bull by the horns and ride it. You aren't going to get anywhere by being a coward.

VashTheStampede

06-22-2002, 07:45 PM

Take the bull by the horns and ride it
That's one way to put it. :D

The Guard

06-22-2002, 09:15 PM

...

She can do worse, Slip. Probably won't. But it can happen.

But trust me on this:

Ask her out, or regret not doing it for the rest of your life.

BLACKHEART

06-23-2002, 10:28 AM

What? She will laugh at you? She will make fun of you? If that is how she gets joy in life then so be it. Realize that you are more mature than her and in time she'll probably come crawling to you. I've never had a girl do either of those but if they did I would just remind myself that she will end up with some jerk for the rest of her life.

Chris Sanders MSX

06-23-2002, 12:30 PM

There are not that many girls that will laugha t you for asking her out, If anything she'll just atke ita s a boost to her ego and let you down nicely. I've never had anything worse than a No happen to me but I've seen worse happen to friends.

But to be fair my friend is really annoying and kind of a goof so he had it coming. If your a cool guy, she won't do anything worse than sya no..that is if she doesn't say yes.

Dark Vicious

06-23-2002, 11:33 PM

i know this sounds corny but tell her your real feelings trust me the feeling of rejection is better than the feeling of regret i personaly know Ive regreted not telling girls I had a crush on them and they found someone else so walk up to her and say bluntly I have a crush on you or else youll regret it and that sucks

So tell her your feeling or suffer GOD DAMMIT!!!!

Leaping Larry Jojo

06-24-2002, 12:14 AM

I don't know, it seems you don't know her very well...if you follow her too closely, that's almost stalking, and you don't want to have that...

You COULD do nothing, but obviously if the urge is great you will do something anyway.

Personally, I bet her friend has a crush on you (assuming she is female) if she gave you all that info about her. What can I say? Go for the friend! You know all those movies where it turns out the girl you don't expect actually likes you...

OR

Try getting your Object of Affection's e-mail addy and e-mail her. Might as well start preparing for the flirting techniques of the new decade.

:bosko:

Brandon Pierce

06-24-2002, 06:35 PM

Originally posted by Leaping Larry Jojo
I don't know, it seems you don't know her very well...if you follow her too closely, that's almost stalking, and you don't want to have that...

You COULD do nothing, but obviously if the urge is great you will do something anyway.

Personally, I bet her friend has a crush on you (assuming she is female) if she gave you all that info about her. What can I say? Go for the friend! You know all those movies where it turns out the girl you don't expect actually likes you...

OR

Try getting your Object of Affection's e-mail addy and e-mail her. Might as well start preparing for the flirting techniques of the new decade.

:bosko:
I would email her, but she doesn't have internet access. :(

Dark Vicious

06-25-2002, 12:00 AM

Hey Brendon do something like a secret admirer leave chocolate on her doorstep or flowers then when you think the time is right tell her your the admirer then checkmate you got a date if it doesn't work feel free to hunt me down and kill me if it makes you feel better :cool:

Brandon Pierce

08-19-2002, 02:52 PM

Hey, I ran into Amanda yesterday at the store. We started chatting, and before she left she said, "Call me, okay." I wonder what that meant..... :D

Chris Sanders MSX

08-19-2002, 03:37 PM

Ajax

08-19-2002, 08:25 PM

Originally posted by Brandon Pierce
School just got out a few days ago, and I STILL haven't really confessed to this one girl that I had a crush on her. Now what? I have her phone number (but I'm not sure if it's her real number, one of her friends gave it to me) and someone told me where she lives. So? I simply couldn't just go up to her door and say, "Hi, Amanda! How are you? Nice weather we're having! This is a nice place you got! By the way, I have a crush on you!" :o !
Any suggestions?

Look dawg, first you got to find out if this chick is even interested in you. Either by talking with her friends or what have you, just find out. This is important because if you want any chance with her you got to know if she interested, because if she is'nt and you make your move you'll be embarrassed. And if she is interested, well friend you have to take it from there. I see that a lot of people are giving you advice, and even though it's really good advice, you have to get this chick by yourself doing it your own way. I am not saying that asking for advice is bad, it's that it's helps your confidence more if you get this chick by yourself.

TimTwoFace

08-19-2002, 08:34 PM

Originally posted by Brandon Pierce
Hey, I ran into Amanda yesterday at the store. We started chatting, and before she left she said, "Call me, okay." I wonder what that meant..... :D

Do it! DO IT!

If it doesn't work out, that's one thing, but she's given you an open invitation, so don't second guess this and go for it. :)

Just be yourself, and it'll be alllllll good.

-Tim
(dating expert...who is single)

Chikorita

08-19-2002, 11:32 PM

call her :-D
when I have a crush,I dont do anything...I just admire from afar,cause I'm not allowed to date -_-;
but dont take my advice ^^;;;;
like now,I do have a crush on a boy,but I cant really do anything about it..
anyways,call her ^^

Weatherman

08-20-2002, 12:02 AM

Well, in this case, call her and chat for a bit. Invite her to a movie/ballgame/ect. Worst thing you can do right now is nothing. Seize the day!

czyznyck99

08-20-2002, 01:18 AM

Well, you should definately call her and say "wazzup." You have nothing more to lose.

...or do you ;) ?

Later.