"Have you ever been so in love?"

[Angel_Baby]

Ok, so I got one of those dumb email quizes and I was wondering about one of the questions. It asked, have you ever been so in love it made you cry? so I was wondering what you guys will say. me fro example has been that much in love but got hurt badly in the end. so I hope to hear from you guys

~jenn :p

[Obi]

No.


I've never been in love anyway.

[Kury Wagner]

Cry in a happy way? Or a sad way?

[Boomhauer]

No no Angel Baby.
What you up to asking that kind of question

[Kury Wagner]

I've never been in love anyway.
Aw, that's sad. I've kinda been in love, but he didn't know. I've never dated anyone. I have REALLY strong crushes, though.

I currently have a few. ;)

[The Falcon]

no. not really. i don't really believe in love anyway, just in relationships to make both parties better in the end (lex luther said something like that on smallville. after watching the season one dvd, i have a better out look on my life ;))

Hero

[MachSabre]

Yes I have. And we have gone our own seperate ways, I would do it all over again in a heartbeat.

[Angel_Baby]

No no Angel Baby.
What you up to asking that kind of question

Nothing :D seriuosly I was just wondering...... Any ways it was off one of those email quizes from one of my friends

~jenn :p

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

Dated, but never really been in love. I mean, head over heels in love with someone, someone you thought you'd marry. Never happened to me.

[Obi]

I've never even dated. :p

[Leaping Larry Jojo]

I've never even dated. :p

Well, every time always feels like the first time for me anyway. Of course, I haven't been on many (less than 8), but I still get nervous and unsure every single time.

[Elven Moon]

How could I? I've never even been on a date. So... no.

[SSJPabs]

Yikes, lots of dateless in here.

Anyhow yes, I've been so in love that it made me weep with the pain of it.

[Eddie G.]

If I'm crying because I'm not in love and don't have a girlfriend, well does that count?


Yikes, lots of dateless in here.

Anyhow yes, I've been so in love that it made me weep with the pain of it.That's good to hear I guess, I'm not really sure. Anyway while I'm not dateless I've never been too involved to cry over some one.

[Jaguar]

No.

Love is too cruel for that kind of thing.

[MJC]

No. And I could never see myself crying anyway.

[Sailor Chibi Otaku]

Just because you're dateless (I'm in that group), doesn't mean that you cry because you're in love.

have you ever been so in love it made you cry?

Yep. I'm in that situation right now. I cried one time on ICQ chatting with him for four hours.

[SSJPabs]

Oh ha, I guess I should clarify. It's made me cry in both a happy way for it with one girl, and for a different girl I cried because being in love SUCKED at that point and it hurt me very much.

[Lu775]

I've cried over unrequited love.
But I've also cried when I've been so happy, or touched, that the feelings overwhelmed me. Yeah, I'm a big softie.:sweat:

[Caffeine King]

Nope... =(

[MidNight Kid]

Love is a battlefield,and i dont want to get killed by a bullet of sadness or hate or what ever they call it when someone gets dumped,i just confused myself :confused:

[PowerZord]

Yes. but I don't we need details

[G. Wen]

Have I ever cried due to romantic love? No. That is a waste of time. If I loved someone, I would initiate something. If he doesn't love me back, I would be sad, but I will get on with my life and refuse to dwell and mope about it. If we break up, I will feel sad but I will still move on. I don't stop and cry over romantic love. Ever.

[Frank Castle]

I've been extremely mad after a break up but certainly not cried. After about 5 minutes of yelling I realize that the world's not ending and I can get on with my life.

[Daredevil_2003]

Due to the various complexities (and boy are they complex) of my current relationship and how much I love this person, I've come close to crying more than once but never managed more than a single tear for some reason. I always keep my composure, I dont know why, guess I'm just lucky to not break down and cry like a baby every time life goes poo.

[Marvel_Knight]

Well, it all- to heck with it. Most of you probably know what I'm gonna say.

[Spike Mcdougal]

"Have you ever been so in love?"

Yes in fact I am now.......so I ask something else?

I really like her but she has a boyfriend yet in my heart I think she's the one so what would you do if this ever happened. Would you keep the feelings to yourself or would you lay it all out on the table and tell her how you feel, knowing full well what the answer might be but you're better off knowing that you took a shot?

[Sailor Chibi Otaku]

"Have you ever been so in love?"

Yes in fact I am now.......so I ask something else?

I really like her but she has a boyfriend yet in my heart I think she's the one so what would you do if this ever happened. Would you keep the feelings to yourself or would you lay it all out on the table and tell her how you feel, knowing full well what the answer might be but you're better off knowing that you took a shot?

*nods* I did that and I cried for fours hours on ICQ as he and I chatted. I let my emotions get the best of me and now, he and I don't stand a chance. Last I spoke to him, he's currently single. Gah!! I shouldn't talk about him. I'm gonna cry. :sad:

[Mr. Pedro]

I don't think that the stuff I've gone through constitutes being in love. I would consider it to be my futile attempt to build something up from simple infatuation. Being socially handi-capped (not that I totally avoid people, I can interact on a regular basis with no problem, I just suck at relationships)to begin with, It was sometimes difficult to even look at the object of my affection or even say something, but I'll be damned if I didn't try to over-come my flaws.

Sadly, in my case, trying was never enough. And my situation probably won't change anytime soon. My life right now consists of college, work and sleeping. Never dated, hell, I never had any friends to go out with in my high-school years. I get abosolutely frustrated at myself because of this. I'll see how everyone around me can talk and laugh and flirt, and I'll look at myself and wonder why I can't do that while for others, this stuff is as natural as blinking.

Sorry for getting off track, I'll wrap it up now. I've had feelings for others, which went nowhere and I hate myself from time to time.:sad:

[Phantasm]

i'm really not sure...i cried because this guy left...it hurt bad.

[sun]

The bells ring, everything is perfect, your parner is beautiful....It happened to me 30 years ago this summer...She dumped me, and it hurt in a way one cannot describe, for a very long time...Luckily, I did not give up...I was so sure, it could never happen again...But you must be patient, and give yourself a chance to heal, like any wound....and in the end you will be stronger...I did meet someone else, and fell in love again,,,that did not work out either, but I learned I was much stronger than I thought, and surivived to see the other side. Best of Luck to all on this one, there are so many people out there, you will meet someone eventually, if the first time fails, just hang in there...Stuart

[Ajax]

Without trying to sound conceited as hell, I have had my fair share of girls. Some very hot, some just average, and some not so hot. And to be honest I've never been in love. Even with a couple of girls I brought home were even my mom would say "That's My boy". I've never been in love. I always told myself that I was to young. And it was ture, there were times in my life were I thought I was in love but just turn out to be silly crushes that I got over. And anyways I've seen what being in love does to people, and I've seen how much it hurts them in the end. My time will come when the right girl comes around. Although I've been guilty of saying I love a girl to get her to do what I want:( , but that's about as close as I been.

[BohemenIdeal]

I have cried after a break up yes but never just because of being in love with someone.

[sun]

Being in love, can mean many things to many people...In an earlier post, I talked about the bells are ringing kind of love. Everything is wonderful, and always be...Then there is simply sex, mistaken for love...Also, some relationships that start out as friendships evolve into a deeper kind of love...Love, I believe, must involve respect and accepance of the other persons flaws..Some flaws are superficial, some are deep..If one cannot accept all of the person, even if the bells are ringing at the moment, that love is doomed..After the bells are ringing stage, there is the relationship stage that is multifaceted, complex, and difficult...Because differences between people, two people, even when married, often discover stuff about the other, that lead to the divorce court..I've been there..no fun..So beware of the "bells are ringing stage"....It is not likely to last that long, and then you may have to accept that whole person, who is not completely what he/she seemed like....I know people who took years to get there, and then there was rejection...But, to be in love, deeply, is one of the greatest feelings in the world, worth the risk, but there is risk....I guess there is risk in just crossing the street too......thanks for reading all of this. :) Stuart

[SirLemming]

Absolutely no activity in the romantic realm until this past September.

I never really tried. I'm an independent and patient kind of guy. I do pretty well on my own.

Or at least, that's how I used to be...

Then in September -- freshman year of college -- I fell hopelessly in love with a girl who I knew had a very, very steady boyfriend. We became friends. We started talking a LOT (often several hours in a single night). The more I got to know her, the more I loved her, and the more I found out how much she loved her boyfriend.
I felt strongly enough about her that, under radically different circumstances, I would have married her. But that's even more true of her and her boyfriend ("unofficial husband-to-be" is more like it).

So what did I do? Well, after about 2 months I was comfortable enough in our friendship to know that telling her about it wouldn't ruin things between us. It would only strengthen our friendship, since I wouldn't be hiding the huge secret.
But instead, I waited 8 months -- until the very last night of finals, my last chance before we all moved back home for summer -- to tell her. Throughout those months, yes, I cried (and prayed) my frickin' head off. It was agonizing. I knew it would only end if I told her, and that it would be better for the both of us, but I was just too afraid of the moment itself. But anyway, I told her (over AIM, but it was the only option I had left), and sure enough, she understood, and it was the biggest relief I ever felt. And the most wonderful conversation I ever had.
And then I cried in a different way, because for the first time in 8 months I truly felt good. Despite finals the next day.

So that was a month ago today, almost... May 11th.

The experience has undoubtedly changed me forever. I always planned to fall in love eventually, but I was patient. But now it's hard to live without it.
It's still better than those 8 months, though.

"Have you ever been so in love?"

Yes in fact I am now.......so I ask something else?

I really like her but she has a boyfriend yet in my heart I think she's the one so what would you do if this ever happened. Would you keep the feelings to yourself or would you lay it all out on the table and tell her how you feel, knowing full well what the answer might be but you're better off knowing that you took a shot?I suppose I just answered. Get to know her well enough so that she knows where you're coming from. Not just to "show her your stuff", but so that you know she knows you well. Then when you tell her about it, her answer will mean more. There won't be anything left to debate, really. And that's what you need -- closure. Without that there's no hope of ever getting over it.